Apology
I want to apologize to those who have looked forward to a story since the last one posted.
I had a goal and was eager to lauch this site
Oct 20th, Sweetest Day
Although that was accomplished I allowed distractions of life to come and bombard me.
I apologize
I have been questioned of the other two husbands so I will repeat #1, tell of #2 and the series will complete next week
From this day forward I will write the story of
a sister who is strong enough, courageous enough to tell what she has overcome
Benevolent enough to share what has made her successful
Caring enough to befriend you with her joy.
Again Enjoy and be encouraged in all things
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This Girl and Them Guys
Husband
# 1
I got saved in
the midst of shacking
decided we should be
married so I would'nt be in
sin
He could have cared
less about this new relationship I was developing with
GOD
as long as
His comforts didin't
change but they did change because I changed
I wanted to learn and
grow & become who GOD said I was
I was
brainwashed and actually believed WE could be
better
He said He loved Me
and would try so
He went to the alter
and said He felt something
then
He had a strong desire
to smoke a cigarette so
He went out gambling and stayed a week
I went to the joint to
get Him
'cause We
had an anniversary
I wanted to share it
with Him
and I wanted to share GOD
but
He avoided
Me because
He had
lost
Emotions
Flared
I was sad and without
patience
He was mad and full of
pride
We stopped talking
and
the devil grated us a
divorce
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This Girl and Them Guys
Husband # 2
I had been set up for this guy
I had a little time to recover from number one
I was living life, loving God and learning God
I had what Paul called a zeal of God but not according to knowledge (Romans 10:2-3)
I hadn't learned enough, what I had learned
I was preaching but nobody in my outside of church circle seemed to understand or want to hear
Somebody even said to me...Girl! you need to get you some, to calm you down...just a little bit-
God will understand
Sooo...one day...on the beach, sun shining he approached me, this fella had swag and filled me up with compliments
but I wasn't hearing them
I was attracted to someone else and the someone else and I were doing over the phone bible studies
however, number two was persistent, he found where I worked and showed up on the front stoop of my job with a fresh mouth full of sugar
I was flattered he had taken the time to find me and since someone else was not pursuing me
I gave all my spare time to the guy who did
We didn't do bible studies but we both knew how to firt and I let my light shine
I remembered God but I had been drawn away from him and truth be told I was liking it.
I was embarrased too, my attempt at making it right was...
LETS GET MARRIED
he didn't want to but we did anyway
It was disastrous from the start but I couldn't see the fury we were headed for because I was distracted with fun and deception
We lived the lie for three years until it was made known to me that he was sharing the same deceptive fun outside our household,
their fun produced a child and our fun was replaced with realities to face
We both cried, we tried to talk
but there was no foundation of truth beneath the fun we had
with no right words and nothing to say
we got divorced